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by Brenda Gantt (Author)
It has been over eight years since my husband chose to leave me. I have survived double knee replacement, two back surgeries, foot surgery and cancer in both my breasts. I know God was working for my survival through a terrible divorce and my illnesses. I could have never made it without my faith.
My ex-husband died in 2018. I feel sorry for his death and have no ill feelings toward him as I know in the end he was mentally imbalanced from dementia. His family and ex-wife took control over him before he left me until the divorce all for money.
I was a good, loving wife. I treated my husband like a king. I trusted him and withstood his temper tantrums and intimidations all through my marriage. I was obedient in order to survive. He as a tall man and had the ability stand over me in a very threatening manner.
I never questioned him and had no idea he was unfaithful to me with other women and his ex-wife. His ex-wife was the last person on this earth I would have dreamed he was seeing. He would always tell me and others he was ashamed of her and she would have ruined his military career. He was a stranger to me in the end.
My experiences during a two year long divorce and afterward have made me unbelievably strong. I had been surrounded by lies and deceit for 39 years.
I have a wonderful life without anymore stress. I have been set free from a man who had no respect for me and that I could not please. I don't have any more health problems that I know of. I'm with friends and family every day. I feel blessed that I have been set free without any more worries.
I felt compelled to write this book with the hope it will in some way help others who are faced with abuse and control.
