{"product_id":"wired-for-love-how-understanding-your-partners-brain-and-attachment-style-can-help-you-defuse-conflict-and-build-a-secure-relationship-paperback","title":"Wired for Love: How Understanding Your Partner's Brain and Attachment Style Can Help You Defuse Conflict and Build a Secure Relationship - Paperback","description":"\u003cdiv\u003e\u003cp style=\"text-align: right;\"\u003e\u003ca href=\"https:\/\/reportcopyrightinfringement.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"nofollow\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eReport copyright infringement\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003c\/div\u003e\u003cp\u003eby \u003cb\u003eStan Tatkin\u003c\/b\u003e (Author), \u003cb\u003eHarville Hendrix\u003c\/b\u003e (Foreword by)\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\"Invaluable for so many partners looking to reconnect and grow closer together.\" \u003cbr\u003e --Gwyneth Paltrow, founder and CEO of goop\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003e\"Stan Tatkin can be entirely followed into the towering infernos of our most painful relationship challenges.\" \u003cbr\u003e --Alanis Morissette, artist, activist, and wholeness advocate\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eThe complete \"insider's guide\" to understanding your partner's brain, sparking lasting connection, and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust--now with more than 170,000 copies sold.\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e \"What the heck is my partner thinking?\" \"Why do they always react like this?\" \"How can we get back that connection we had in the beginning?\" If you've ever asked yourself these questions, you aren't alone, and it doesn't mean that your relationship is doomed. Every person is wired for love differently--with different habits, needs, and reactions to conflict. The good news is that most people's minds work in predictable ways and respond well to security, attachment, and routines, making it possible to neurologically prime the brain for greater love and connection and fewer conflicts. This go-to guide will show you how. \u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e Drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this highly anticipated second edition of \u003ci\u003eWired for Love\u003c\/i\u003e presents cutting-edge research on how and why love lasts, and offers ten guiding principles that can improve any relationship. This fully revised and updated edition also includes new guidance on how to manage disagreements, as well as new exercises to help you create a sense of safety and security, establish healthy conflict ground rules, and deal with the \u003ci\u003ethreat of the third\u003c\/i\u003e--any outside source which threatens the harmony in your relationship, including in-laws, alcohol, children, and affairs. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e You'll find proven-effective strategies to help you strengthen your relationship by: \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e Creating and maintaining a safe \"couple bubble\" \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e Using morning and evening routines to stay connected \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e Learning how to see your partner's point of view \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e Meeting each other halfway in a fight \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e Becoming the expert on what makes your partner feel loved \u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e \u003cp\u003e By using simple gestures and words, you'll learn to put out emotional fires and help your partner feel appreciated and loved. You'll also discover how to move past a \"warring brain\" mentality and toward a more cooperative \"loving brain.\" Most importantly, you'll gain a better understanding of the complex dynamics at work behind love and trust in intimate relationships. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e While there's no doubt that love is an inexact science, if you understand\u003ci\u003e how\u003c\/i\u003e you and your partner are wired differently, you can overcome your differences, and create a lasting intimate connection. \u003c\/p\u003e\u003ch3\u003eAuthor Biography\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003cp\u003e\u003cb\u003eStan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT\u003c\/b\u003e, is a clinician, teacher, researcher, and developer of the psychobiological approach to couple therapy (PACT). He and his wife, Tracey Boldemann-Tatkin, cofounded the PACT Institute to train other mental health professionals worldwide to use this method in their clinical work. Tatkin is an assistant clinical professor at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA. He maintains a private practice in Southern California, and directs PACT programs in the US and internationally. He is author of \u003ci\u003eIn Each Other's Care \u003c\/i\u003eand six other books. \u003c\/p\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eNumber of Pages:\u003c\/strong\u003e 216\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDimensions:\u003c\/strong\u003e 0.63 x 8.9 x 5.98 IN\u003c\/div\u003e\n            \u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePublication Date:\u003c\/strong\u003e June 01, 2024\u003c\/div\u003e\n            ","brand":"BooksCloud","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":44413684154470,"sku":"9781648482960","price":27.75,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0599\/7255\/0758\/files\/lAdzieblV69781648482960.webp?v=1769989867","url":"https:\/\/infinitylightwa.com\/products\/wired-for-love-how-understanding-your-partners-brain-and-attachment-style-can-help-you-defuse-conflict-and-build-a-secure-relationship-paperback","provider":"Infinity Light","version":"1.0","type":"link"}